When Jono Lancaster was born with Treacher Collins syndrome—a rare condition affecting facial structure and hearing—his parents abandoned him, feeling unprepared for the challenges ahead. Left in the care of social services, Jono’s future changed when Jean, a compassionate woman, adopted him. “How could you not love a child?” she said. On May 18, 1990, Jono officially became her son, a date he celebrates as his second birthday.
Growing up, Jono faced severe bullying due to his appearance. “I hated my face,” he shared. “I avoided mirrors and felt ashamed of how I looked.” The rejection from his birth parents fueled feelings of unworthiness. “Parents are supposed to love you no matter what. I wondered, ‘Who will want me?’”
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A turning point came during his bartending job when a tough-looking customer bluntly asked about his face. Jono candidly explained his condition. The man joked about his hearing aids having an “off switch,” and for the first time, Jono felt laughter directed with him, not at him. This moment helped him focus on positivity.
Now 36, Jono is a motivational speaker and advocate, supporting children with Treacher Collins syndrome. “What’s changed is my attitude. With the right mindset, you can achieve anything,” he said. His story highlights the transformative power of love and self-acceptance.